Saturday, August 23, 2008

Gone from our home but not our hearts!


Well last night we had to say goodbye to our foster kiddos Jayden and Gracie that we've had since the beginning of May. They are the cutest kids. The case managers decided that it would be better for the kiddos to go to a more long term foster care home since it looks like they will be in the "system" for quite a long time. Of course we were asked if we wanted to keep them long term but since me going to school is our family's number one focus we thought it wouldn't be fair to me, the other kids and Jayden and Gracie. So we had to let them go. I thought I was mentally prepared well for it but I turned to a big ball of mush when I had to say the final goodbyes. They are going to WONDERFUL new foster parents and that made the transition a little easier for us to take. As long as they are in their home they will be loved, well cared for, and very lucky. Jayden will get to swim everyday if he wants because they have a pool. Good Luck Sweet Angels! May God watch over you and continue to keep you safe and happy in this crazy world. Know that The Bauer family really loved you lots.
We also decided that we would no longer continue doing foster care. We think our kids are still so young and they need to be the primary focus right now. Hopefully when they get older we can do it again. We enjoy helping kids that need the help and the "system" needs good foster homes. Of course we are forever indebted to the "system" without it we would not have been able to grow our family and get our amazing little boy Brayden and sweet princess Sophia. Our life is very blessed with our children and wouldn't have changed anything. We also want to extend a huge Thank You to everyone that helped and supported us while doing foster care. Eileen thanks for dropping what you were doing on a dime to come and help me with all these kids. You NEVER once complained. You are an amazing woman and I love you dearly. Terra, thanks for keeping me sane. You had a way with your words that made my crazy life seem not so crazy. You are my best friend and I love you so much. Karen, thanks for listening to me rant and rave about this crazy "system" and how we would love to see things different to make the innocent children's lives better. Last but not least, Thanks Howie for helping out so well with all the kids and understanding me when the only thing that came out of my frustrated mouth was not nice things. If you know what I mean. I Love You and I'm so blessed to have you by my side. Again, thank you to everyone for your love and support. We love you all.

3 comments:

Jeremy & Echelle Slade said...

Hello there! You don't know me, but I am your Schwan Man's wife! I just wanted to say how much we appreciate your bread~ Your family looks so fun! We hope you have a great week!

Dana Green said...

I know you made the right decision with those precious kids. I know God entrusted them in your hands for the time you had them. Wow, you are such an amazing mother. It isn't easy to take on so much. I am so lucky to be a part of your family and can't wait to come visit everyone in November. Good luck with school starting. I love you!!

Tania said...

Sorry to hear that. I'm sure it is in the best interest of all the kids. Your blog is so cute! Isabella started school too this week. She called to tell me about it. I miss her so much. Her mom is supposed to send me a picture like Braydon's. If I get it, I will post it on my (newly updated) blog.